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Home-Buying Guide for Families

How to Stay Organized, All the Way to Move-in Day

Your Family’s Guide to a Smoother Home-Buying Experience

Buying a home is exciting — but it takes planning, patience, and a lot of coordination, especially if your family is new to the process.

We’ll walk you through the home-buying journey, with extra tips for the parts that often feel the most uncertain.

Throughout it all, Trustworthy’s Family Operating System® can be your digital command center. Whether you’re storing pre-approval letters, organizing homeownership documents, or sharing files securely with your agent or lender, Trustworthy keeps everything in one place — easy to find and safe to share.

20 Steps to Buying a Home

This step-by-step checklist will help you stay organized, avoid costly mistakes, and feel confident throughout the process.

Step 1: Check Your Credit Score Early

Check your credit scores and credit reports for accuracy

Pay down debts to improve your scores

Avoid opening new credit accounts before applying for a mortgage

Tip: Your credit scores affect your mortgage rate and loan approval chances. The higher your scores, the better your loan terms.

Step 2: Decide if the Time Is Right to Buy a House

Assess your financial stability and savings

Consider job security and long-term plans

Compare the costs of renting vs. buying in your area

Make sure you’re financially ready to cover:

Down payment (typically 3%–20%)

Emergency fund (3–6 months of expenses)

Moving expenses, furniture, utility deposits, and other upfront costs

Tip: Some buyers forget to budget for moving and setup costs — be sure to look beyond the mortgage payment. Renting may be a better option if you need flexibility or have financial uncertainty.

Step 3: Research Loan Types

Learn about different mortgage types:

Conventional loan — Requires higher credit scores and a down payment of at least 3%, but offers flexibility and lower long-term costs if you avoid mortgage insurance by making a larger down payment (typically 20%))

FHA loan — Accepts lower credit scores and a down payment as low as 35%, making it great for first-time buyers, but it comes with mandatory mortgage insurance

VA loan — Available to eligible military members, veterans, and some surviving spouses, with no down payment required and no private mortgage insurance

USDA loan — Designed for eligible rural and suburban buyers with no down payment, but has income limits and property restrictions

Research first-time homebuyer programs and down payment assistance

Look into interest rate types (fixed vs. adjustable)

Understand mortgage terms (15-year vs. 30-year)

Tip: Set aside three to six months’ worth of living expenses for unexpected repairs. Even well-maintained homes will need some work done.

Getting Pre-Approved: Your Financial Foundation

One of the first big steps is getting pre-approved for a mortgage — essentially figuring out your budget and securing a lender’s tentative OK on a loan.

Pre-approval means a lender has reviewed your finances and credit and is willing to lend you up to a certain amount. Not only does this give you a clear price range for house hunting, but it also makes any offer you submit much stronger. (A 2022 Zillow survey found 86% of home sellers prefer buyers who are pre-approved over those who are not .)

Don’t worry if you’re not an expert — lenders will walk you through the application and explain your loan choices.

The main goal is to understand how much home you can afford before you fall in love with a house outside your budget. By firming up your financing early, you’ll save time and heartache later, and you’ll be ready to act fast when you find “the one.”

Step 5: Get Pre-approved for a Mortgage

Research and compare lenders for the best rates

Decide whether to work directly with a lender or use a mortgage broker

Gather necessary documents, including:

Social Security number and government-issued ID

W-2 forms from the past two years, or 1099s if self-employed

Pay stubs from the past 30-60 days

Tax returns from the past two years, if self-employed or requested by the lender

Checking and savings account statements from the past two to three months

Investment account statements, if applicable assets or reserves

Any down payment gift letter, if applicable

Loan statements

Rental income documentation, if applicable

Documents for any other properties you own

Get a mortgage pre-approval letter from a lender

Tips: A mortgage broker can shop multiple lenders on your behalf to help you find the best terms. Store your documents in Trustworthy’s Family Operating System® for secure access and easy sharing with lenders or brokers.

Ask for a loan estimate rom each lender for comparison

Budget for 2% to 5% of the home price for closing costs

Factor in appraisal fees, title insurance, and lender charges

Ask for a loan estimate rom each lender for comparison

Prepare for prepaid items like homeowners insurance and property taxes

Tip: Closing costs vary by lender and location — compare itemized fees carefully. Understanding these costs early prevents last-minute financial surprises.

Step 7: Decide Whether to Hire an Agent

Research and interview buyer’s agents

Ask for referrals and check online reviews

Choose an agent who prioritizes your budget and needs

Tip: Consider hiring a buyer’s agent with a fiduciary duty to act in your best interest, rather than just facilitating the transaction.

Ask for a loan estimate rom each lender for comparison

Prepare for prepaid items like homeowners insurance and property taxes

Tip: Closing costs vary by lender and location — compare itemized fees carefully. Understanding these costs early prevents last-minute financial surprises.

Step 8: Build a Wish List

List your must-haves, such as:

Neighborhood

School district

Home size

Length of commute to work

Identify nice-to-haves, but be flexible

Share your list with your real estate agent

Tip: Being clear about priorities helps your agent find the best options faster.

Step 9: View Properties

Schedule home tours (virtual and in-person)

Take notes and photos of each home

Compare properties based on your wish list

Tip: Be patient — don’t rush into an offer. The right home is out there.

Crafting and Negotiating a Winning Offer

After weeks (or months) of searching, you’ve found a house that feels like home — congratulations!

Now comes the next big step: making an offer. This is where a good buyer’s agent is truly worth what they’re paid. They’ll help you decide on a fair offer price by looking at recent local sales and balancing that with your budget and the home’s condition.

In a competitive market, you might offer the asking price or even a bit above if there are multiple bidders. In a slower market, you could start a little lower. The goal is to show the seller you’re serious without paying more than necessary.

Negotiations are normal, so don’t be alarmed if there’s some back-and-forth. The seller might counter your offer — perhaps asking for a higher price or different terms — and you can respond in turn. Keep your budget in mind and decide which things you’re willing to compromise on.

For example, you might agree to a slightly higher price if the seller leaves the appliances, or you might stick to your number but be flexible on the move-in date. Common points to negotiate include the price, the closing date, and any contingencies (conditions like a successful inspection or appraisal).

Step 10: Make an Offer

Work with your agent to craft a competitive offer

Submit a formal, written offer to the seller

Be prepared for counteroffers or negotiations

Tip: A buyer’s agent can help structure your offer to stand out, especially in competitive markets.

Home Inspection 101: Don’t Skip It

Once your offer is accepted, it’s home inspection time — essentially a health checkup for the house. Nearly 90% of buyers hire a professional inspector when purchasing a home , and for good reason.

An inspector will alert you to any potential problems, big or small. This could range from minor maintenance issues to major structural or safety concerns. But no house is perfect, so don’t panic if the report comes back with a list of issues.

After the inspection, you’ll get a detailed report. Take the time to review it carefully with your agent. If serious defects are found, you typically have a few options: You can request the seller fix the problems or credit you money for repairs, renegotiate the price, or, if the issues are too alarming, you can walk away if your offer included an inspection contingency.

For minor issues, the report can become your to-do list after moving in. Also, consider attending the inspection if you can; it’s a great opportunity to learn about your future home and get maintenance tips from the inspector.

In short, never skip the inspection. It’s there to protect you and ensure your new home is safe, sound, and truly yours with peace of mind.

Step 11: Schedule a Home Inspection

Hire a certified home inspector

Attend the inspection and review the report

Identify any major repair issues

Tip: Even new homes can have hidden problems — don’t skip this step.

Step 12: Negotiate Repairs and Credits

Discuss necessary repairs with your agent

Request the seller make repairs or lower the price

Decide if the home is still worth purchasing

Tip: In a competitive market, sellers may decline to make repairs. Decide if the home is still worth it.

Step 13: Compare Mortgage Options & Apply

Shop for the best mortgage rates and terms

Submit a formal loan application with all required documents

Choose the best mortgage offer for your situation

Tip: Mortgage rates can change — it’s smart to compare loan offers even after pre-approval.

Getting Ready for Closing Day

Closing day — when you finally get the keys — is in sight! But before you pop the champagne, there are a few final steps to ensure everything goes smoothly.

In the last week or so before closing, you’ll do a final walk-through of the empty house to make sure it’s in the condition agreed upon — for example, that any repairs you negotiated have been made, and nothing has changed since your last visit.

You’ll also receive a closing-disclosure document from your lender at least three days before closing, which itemizes all the finances of your deal — read this carefully to avoid surprises. Remember that closing costs (lender and third-party fees for things like appraisal, title search, etc.) typically range from about 2% to 5% of the home’s price, and you’ll need to pay upfront.

By using Trustworthy to stay organized through the closing process, you’ll ensure a happy and stress-free finale to your homebuying journey. After closing, Trustworthy’s Family Operating System® is also the perfect place to store your deed, property tax info, warranty documents, and more.

Step 14: Conduct a Final Walk-Through

Check that agreed-upon repairs were completed

Test appliances, plumbing, and electrical systems

Verify everything is as expected before closing

Tip: This is your last chance to spot issues before closing — be thorough.

Step 15: Close on Your House

Review and sign all closing documents

Pay closing costs and down payment

Receive the keys to your new home

Store signed closing documents securely

Upload property deed, mortgage agreement, and insurance declarations

Save digital copies of your inspection report, title insurance, and warranty (if applicable)

Tip: Upload your homeownership documents to Trustworthy’s Family Operating System® to keep them secure, organized, and easy to retrieve and share.

Step 16: Consider a Home Warranty

Decide if a home warranty is right for you

Tip: A home warranty can help cover major appliance and system failures. If you get one, store it in the Family Operating System®, ensuring you’ll have access to it when you need it.

Step 17: Update Your Address and Utilities

Update your address with banks, employers, and subscriptions

Set up or transfer utilities (electricity, water, internet)

Tip: Avoid moving-day chaos by setting up essential services early.

Step 18: Review Your Homeowners Insurance

Ensure your policy covers replacement costs and potential risks

Tip: Check for exclusions in your policy to avoid surprises. Store your insurance policy with Trustworthy, ensuring you can find it when you need it.

Step 19: Register for Local Services

Set up waste collection, internet, and home security services

Tip: Some areas have specific waste management services — check early.

Step 20: Set Up a Maintenance Schedule

Track seasonal maintenance tasks (HVAC checks, gutter cleaning, etc.)

Keep a list of reliable contractors or service providers

Tip: Use Trustworthy’s Family Operating System® to store receipts, warranties, and maintenance records in one place.